People Should Be Joining Together

Tonight, people from across the political spectrum should be joining together to condemn political violence, no matter who the target is. It’s never acceptable.

It’s tempting to resort to deep outrage here—Republicans are only upset when their own are the targets. We are no longer in an era when “when they go low, we go high” works. Charlie Kirk made frequent, negative comments about people simply because they were Jewish, gay, transgender, and Black. But there is a floor here below which our country cannot be maintained. An eye for an eye leaves the whole world blind.

We do not have to condone the way Republicans have abandoned principles to express them for ourselves. We can believe political differences should be debated, even vehemently, without resort to violence. When we decide violence is legitimate, or at least to be tolerated as part of our political discourse, everything falls apart.

I have not lost my absolute disdain for Republicans who refused to condemn attacks like those on Paul Pelosi, Josh Shapiro, the Minnesota legislators and others, merely because they were Democrats. If there is a floor for democracy, it is condemning political violence, and these people unambiguously flunk that test. They make their hypocrisy bare when they condemn attacks on Trump and tonight’s violent murder of Charlie Kirk, but not on people who they don’t consider part of their tribe. But here’s the thing: This is not about them, it’s about us.

I understand that many of you will disagree with me. It’s a difficult moment. We should be able to air all of our views on it and I hope you will leave yours in the comments so we can read them. We can find wisdom in views we don’t agree with if we’re willing to listen. But for me, I continue to believe we should condemn this violence, even if, in the same breath, we condemn people who only condemn attacks on people in their own political party. That’s because rejecting violence isn’t about Donald Trump or MAGA. It’s about who we are and who we want to be. I, perhaps foolishly, refuse to let them make me change what I believe in.

Rejecting political violence in this moment doesn’t mean giving Republicans who have refused to condemn it in the past a pass. How do we do that? Consider the reactions Democrats had to Mike Lee’s indecent comments after the Minnesota attacks. Lee called the shooter a “Marxist” (he wasn’t) and posted this on social media, even though the shooter’s roommate said he was a fan of Infowars and would have been upset if he knew people thought he was a Democrat:

“Have you no sense of decency?”

That’s the question we need to ask right now. We don’t have to abandon our own beliefs to do it. We should stick to them. We can condemn political violence and demand an answer from the people who are transactional about when it is wrong, only condemning it when it impacts one of their own. Charlie Kirk has a family, but so does Paul Pelosi and so did Melissa and Mark Hortman.

“Have you no sense of decency?” is the right response to these people, the people whose sense of humanity is constrained by their politics.

As of the time I’m writing to you, law enforcement has not yet offered a motive for Charlie Kirk’s murder. It’s easy to jump ahead with assumptions that it was about his politics, but it’s important to wait until the evidence is assembled before jumping to conclusions. But you don’t have to know more than we already do to know that it is wrong to kill people for their political views. We can stand for decency.